“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
-Mary Oliver
“He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.”
-Nietzsche
What is meaning and purpose? How do meaning and purpose relate to health and healing through cancer?
Meaning and purpose involve your calling in life. Pursuing your unique meaning and purpose provides a sense of belonging with curiosity, diving deep, and a vast vision into levels much larger than yourself. Awareness, attention, and actions toward your meaning and purpose help support your optimal mind-body vitality. The expression of your meaning and purpose invigorates the innate capacity to heal. Meaning and purpose may also be associated with why you want to heal, what you can do to help yourself heal, and not being attached to specific outcomes.
Cancer As A Turning Point discusses the work of Lawrence LeShan, Ph.D. and his writing about how psychological and lifestyle changes toward a zest for life can mobilize the immune system. As LeShan explains in Cancer As A Turning Point, it is “the kind of meaning that makes us glad to get out of bed in the morning and glad to go to bed at night—the kind of life that makes us look forward zestfully to each day and to the future.” This zest for life is a part of meaning and purpose.
What does cancer teach about meaning and purpose? People sometimes believe that there is some kind of inherent meaning in cancer, but there is none. The ways in which each person chooses to grow through the cancer experience is what makes the meaning. Cancer is a catalyst that can be used as an experience to investigate and manifest meaning and purpose. Although not a teacher, cancer does present teachable moments for learning and transformation. You are your own teacher to explore the scope of the meaning and purpose of your life.
The Journey
By Mary Oliver
One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice-
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
“Mend my life!”
each voice cried.
But you didn’t stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do-
determined to save
the only life you could save.